Don't know what to call this

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Don't know what to call this

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Losing a dog after 16 years. I've spent 3 days dismantling everything that was set up to make a comfortable life for her, but some things I can't decide. I put her playpen on the curb with a sign, "FREE, WORKS GOOD, CLEAN", and it is gone. I never cared for the colors of the fabric, but that's what was available at the time. I managed to get her crates folded. She had 2 stacked. The bottom was empty and served as a table to support the top one. The top one was hers. It allowed her to look out the window, and allowed me to care for her at waist level without bending. I *said* I wasn't going to get any more pets (after a health problem 15 mos ago). The choice was to put them in the closet or put them on the curb. I vacuumed the closet and put them in. I previously donated some 36" crates to the animal shelter, but these are bigger and I don't want to try to get them in the car. Even moving them from room to room, I had to put each one on top of my foot and hitch it along. I'd have to hitch it much farther to get them to the curb, and I felt like I'd done enough just getting the top one off the bottom one and folding them both without injuring myself, so I did the easy thing and put them in the closet.

Her bedding. Eleven pink plush bunny blankets and 11 light colored puffy quilts. Light so you can tell if they're clean or not. I could save them in case we get another winter power outage, to keep the other pets warm. I could donate them. I could save a pink blanket to remember her and donate the rest. Would it be one of the old, thin ones, washed so many times? Or a newer one I found on eBay for her, still plush and fluffy? An old one. :wub: But I decided to save them all. For now. They are in the closet. Just didn't want to get rid of them right now. A stack of fleece pads I'm saving for Pip's playpen. A stack of playpen sheets, still good. Pip doesn't use them but I hate to get rid of them. I don't really have room for all this stuff in the closet. Linens take space. Crates, too.

Medicines and ointments. Different canned foods I bought for her, still unopened. Her little denim diapers. I can't donate them, they are clearly worn. I hate to throw them away, they're hers. I put them in a bag which will probably end up in the closet, too. I still have 10 brand new unused denim diapers still in the package. I am mailing them to the rescue who rescued Pip when I find a box. I did a bulk buy of diapers in 2009 on a close-out site, so we'd be sure and never run out. Well, we made it without running out. That's good. :angel: The non slip couch protector pads arrived from Chewy and are sitting unopened. I may check whether Chewy takes returns when I can think about it.

People I haven't contacted yet about the loss. Three vet clinics who have records on her. It's been 3 days but I don't want to tell them yet. And tomorrow is another day. Maybe a run to Goodwill and the animal shelter with donations. We'll see.

In past weeks I especially enjoyed hanging her laundry on the clothesline, and thought about the time when I would not be pinning pink bunny blankets and puffy quilts on the line. Yes, I miss it. I liked doing it for her. It was something I could do.

Dollys blankets and quilts.JPG
Today I managed to download a copy of her video off Youtube. The one her rescuer from Best Friends did in 2009. Not sure I got a high quality copy but at least I know I have it. Maybe I can try some other ways to download as well. This was Dolly at 6 months old. I still have her little collar with the blue Avid tag. The tag has sharp little puppy toothmarks in it.

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Re: Don't know what to call this

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Random thoughts, as it’s warmish and the middle of the night for a busy day.

As far as I’m concerned folding crates is so very hard!

I still have the quilts you sent us, and last winter I used one on the bed when my top half was cold! I’m so fond of most of them, and they can be very handy.

Sometimes rescue outfits need baby blankets for mama cats and dogs, when you might be ready.

One of our SPCAs takes used stuff and gives it away; it might be possible to donate the worn diapers when you’re ready?

:hearts: baby Dolly!

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